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i don't have to, i get to.

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hey friends! i hope you have had a lovely week & happy april! lately as school continues to grind, it gets hard to maintain a positive attitude, so i've been thinking a lot about mindset & i hope this post helps you this week :)


not that i am speaking of being in need, for i have learned, in whatever situation i am, to be content. i know how to be brought low, and i know how to abound. in any and every circumstance, i have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need. i can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. (philippians 4:11–13)


i hope you're heard of the classic mindset of replacing "i have to" with "i get to"... and i want to share some that have been on my mind lately. feel free to add some of yours in the comments!


. . . . .


i have to get through this day of school

i get to learn and grow at school today


i have to go to bed early

i want to go bed early & i get to sleep well


i have to drive so far to get places

i have a car i can drive to travel


i have to eat healthy

i want to fuel my body & feel good


i have to do so much homework

i have the time to master what i’m learning


i have to be nice to someone i don't really like

i get to help someone feel loved


i have to work today

i get to make money doing something i love


i have to do laundry & dishes

i have a laundry machine & dishwasher in my house


i have to workout

i have an body that moves without help


i have to pray more

i want to praise the Lord & talk with Him


i have to do better because i'm not doing good enough

i’m doing the best i can & nothing i do will change my worth to God <3


. . . . .


the last one is a topic i've been thinking about a lot and was articulated beautifully by tamara runia in her talk. i also loved patrick kearon's message about your worth as a child of God.


you are loved. God is good. life is a gift.

xo, kate


ps my most recent podcast ep is with "grandma" harriet from church who tells the most amazing stories!

pss i love love love comments!! they make me so happy! leave your name please so i know who you are :) thanks <33


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mary tessa
7月11日

definitely something on my mind recently! i loved this post!

i'm gonna try reframing my mindset like you suggested :)

いいね!
kate ☺️
kate ☺️
7月11日
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you're the best :D

いいね!

Grace Wertz
Grace Wertz
5月12日

I love this post. Mindset is truly everything! Focusing on the positive instead of the negative is such a good practice to get into in life.

いいね!
kate ☺️
kate ☺️
5月12日
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love u grace <3

いいね!

Sis McD
5月02日

Great context for this post. Good examples for changing attitude. Is love to change my attitude so I can be more like Christ!

いいね!
kate ☺️
kate ☺️
5月04日
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:)

いいね!

Esther C.
4月14日

This is actually something I’ve been thinking about lately, and this reminder was very helpful and humbling. 😉 Thanks for sharing!! 🩷

いいね!
kate ☺️
kate ☺️
4月15日
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thanks girl! i'm glad you liked it!! :)

いいね!

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